Playrooms are where the magic happens...
People ask us all the time what is the thing that makes us different from other events. We could say that Naughty N’awlins is the largest event of its kind in the world (true), that we have the best educational program, most classes, most entertainment, best location, most pool parties, and on and on (all tr’s our playrooms that truly separate us from the rest.
We were the first lifestyle events to put a priority on the playspace and create a truly beautiful space for people to explore their own sexual fantasies and dreams.
It’s hard to create a place that inspires people to get intimate when we are only in the hotel for a few days. Clubs can take months or even years to build and upgrade their playrooms to make them sexy and inviting.
We have one day.
But we make that day count and put a lot of planning into this space before the event so we can set it up fast and efficiently and create a truly magical space for people to explore and expand their sexual horizons.
We carefully pack all of the materials, curtains, decor, lighting, diffusers, speakers, and special touches and label them so they can be quickly loaded, unloaded, separated, and divided into rooms for easy install. Our team of Ambassadors (aka the Naughty Krewe) spends an enormous amount of effort putting everything up and then dialing in the room to create the best experience for almost 3,000 people attending Naughty N’awlins.
What to expect
When entering the playrooms, there will be a sign that shows you how to dress in order to enter. We do not allow regular street clothes on the playroom floor. You can wear lingerie, boxers or briefs, pajamas, a robe, or a towel; you can be nude or in something super sexy (minimum is key), but no jeans, shorts, or elaborate costumes.
We also have a no-drinks rule on this floor. We will provide water for those who get thirsty, but please do not bring your drinks on the playroom floor; we will ask you to finish them or leave them outside.
If everyone is fully dressed with drinks, the play floor ends up with a bunch of people standing around talking and socializing, and that is what the main parties are for. This floor is an intimate space, and a lot of people clogging the hallways and making noise takes away from the sexy vibe we are trying to achieve.
We do offer a changing room for those who want to dress down. We even provide bags, so you can put your street clothes in them, grab a towel, and head in.
Most of our rooms offer beds with curtains on all four sides. Three of the sides have their curtains drawn to separate the bed from other spaces and give our attendees privacy. In the front, we usually have two sheer curtains and two opaque curtains so you can create your own level of privacy that suits you. Here are some options:
Close all of the drapes to give you and your partner privacy. No one can see what is going on inside. You can even invite a couple of friends in, and no one will know what is happening inside.
Close only the sheers, which will still give you privacy, but people can see through the sheers and see what is going on, but because they are closed, no one should enter and you will still have a private space for playing.
Leave the curtains wide open so anyone coming by can see you clearly. This also gives people the option to ask if they can join you.
A couple of things to note here:
Do not assume you can enter someone else’s space just because a curtain is open. You must ALWAYS ask if you can join someone, and they must give you a verbal yes. If they shake their heads and you are not clear, simply say, “I didn’t hear you. May we join you?”
If any curtains are closed (sheers or opaque curtains), NEVER open them or “peek” inside. They are closed for a reason. Respect their choice, leave their space alone, and find a space of your own.
In the Group Room, the curtains will likely remain open at all times, and there will be space for many people to enter the large bed areas. Just because multiple people are in this space, you still must ask permission (get Consent) before touching anyone. And it is VERY important to ask before any form of penetration occurs.
You can learn more about the evolution of Consent in our blog on this subject by clicking here.
Once on the floor, there are a total of 10 different themed rooms for you to enjoy. Here is a list of them with descriptions:
Group Room: Our largest room has the most beds and is decorated with red velvet and white sheers. It has four large group areas, each of which can hold 20 -26 people at a time.
Tantra Room: As you continue down the hallway (to the right), you will find our Tantra room. This room is used for classes during the day on different aspects of Tantra, and it is a great way to practice what you learned in a setting with beautiful tapestries inspired by Tantra artists.
Plus 1 Club: At the end of the hall is our Plus 1 Club room. This is where our singles can hang out and mingle with couples looking for singles. We allow a limited number of single ladies and men to the event, and this is the best place to meet them (other than our Singles Mingles Meet & Greets).
Note: Just because there are singles in this room doesn’t mean they will want to play with everyone. Please have the same respect for every person at Naughty, whether they are part of a couple or single. Ask each and every time before touching someone and definitely before any play takes place.
Crystal Room: Back down the other hallway (to the left when you come in) is our Crystal Room, one of the pretties rooms on the play floor. Decorated with white LED curtains, white sheers, and curtains of crystals, this room shines (and sparkles) and is super sexy.
LED Room: The next room has programmable LED curtains at the back of each play space. This will give couples a little more light inside each area and interesting varieties of visuals.
Semi-Private rooms: We have a few more semi-private rooms similar to the LED Room but without the visuals. These rooms offer the same curtains for privacy. If you want to see the couple in the space next to you, ask first. If they agree, you can open the curtains so that there is only the sheer curtain between you, or you can open the curtains completely. Make sure you both agree to the same level of privacy.
The Toy Room: This is a great room for those who love the Sybian, the MotorBunny, the Hitachi Wand, and many other toys. We will also have a swing in this room and experts who can show you how to use these amazing machines.
The Bi Room: This room is dedicated to bisexual couples and those who are interested in bisexual play. This is not specifically dedicated to either male or female bisexuality, but if you have any issues with male bisexuality, you may want to skip this room.
We shouldn’t even have to put a warning on a room like this in today’s world, but sadly, while we have come a long way… we still have a ways to go and we wanted to have a space that is a safe haven for men, as well as women, where they can act out their fantasies without shame or repercussions.
The Dark Room: This room is more than just dark; it is pitch black. You literally cannot see anything inside. We will put a diagram on the wall outside the room so you can see how the beds are set up since you won’t see anything once you enter.
We also hang up a special notice about Consent to remind everyone that even though it is dark inside, you might bump into someone, and someone may reach out and touch you; Consent is still required for any play.
What to expect when it comes to playing
If you are just going onto the floor to watch others or have people watch you, then you have found the perfect place. This is a big fantasy for many people, and having a safe space like this is how many people are able to act out these fantasies.
If your goal is to play with others, please ensure everyone is on the same page. Don’t guess or try to read body language. It is obvious that this floor is for people to play, so come right out and ask someone if they are interested in playing. If they aren’t, politely thank them and look for someone else.
If a couple says they are interested, that is just the beginning, not the end of the consent process. Now is the time to ask them what their boundaries are. What are they looking for? What are they not into? What is a “hard no,” and what are their limitations for playing?
We will have printed forms on the tables in every room with negotiating questions. You don’t need to actually fill these out, but they are a great resource if you can’t think of what to ask. Think of them as tools you can use when navigating the sometimes difficult negotiation between new people.
Alcohol and the play floor
If you had a lot of alcohol and you might be intoxicated, it might be best to wait until the next day to head to the play floor. Sometimes, nervous people will use alcohol or other substances to help them “loosen up” or get over their nerves. People who are intoxicated cannot give informed consent, and our staff is instructed to turn people away at the door who seem intoxicated or are found inside being loud and disruptive. Please look after your partners and even your friends and suggest another night if you feel that they are too impaired to be able to consent and function responsibly on the play floor.
If one of our staff members tells you to leave, please do not argue with them or cause a scene. It is our goal to have a beautiful space for people to enjoy. Having someone be loud and obnoxious kills the mood for everyone, and you could be asked to leave the event.
Our staff will always side on the side of caution. You may not be as impaired as our staff thinks, but trying to convince them otherwise will only cause more issues. Just tap out and come back the next day. It’s probably a good time to have some water or head to our midnight pizza buffet and check out some other parties.
Do you need to ask for consent from both members of a couple, or is asking for consent from one partner enough?
Every couple is different and has their own set of rules. It’s always better to ask, sooner rather than later, what those rules are and what they are comfortable with, and if approval from the other partner is necessary, then make sure you get consent from them as well. Often, in open relationships, the communication factor creates this sense of closeness and acceptance, making it a lifestyle. It would be best if you were comfortable stating your wants and desires, respecting and considering your partner by giving them a chance to allow it or not, and proceeding with integrity and a clear conscience.
So, if you want to play with someone’s partner, respect their relationship and allow them to practice their openness by discussing their consent to what you’re offering.
Summary
Our playrooms are pretty cool.
Come with an open mind and live out your fantasies.
Dress correctly or undress when you get there.
Consent matters.
We’ll see you guys on the play floor soon…